Free Will Between People
Mixed presence on Earth has resulted in no one on Earth being able to completely fulfill his or her own destiny path. Everyone has been finding they can only do some of the things they want to do. Many have thought that compromise was necessary, but compromise is a judgment, usually in advance of the experience, that the entirety of the proposal is not appropriate. This impedes the evolutionary process because no one compromising finds out if their own approach works or not. Compromise is really no more reasonable than denying parts of people in order to force them on to the same Destiny Path.
In having believed that Free Will between people carries complications requiring compromise, change here needs to come and is going to come as a result of a process of freeing your own Will. This process is going to change relationships and bring many new understandings. No amount of discussion can take the place of really experiencing this. Freeing your Will is going to show you that Free Will between people is entirely possible and not in the ways being presently attempted on Earth. The experience itself is needed to show how it can actually take place that everyone can do exactly as they wish without having to compromise, be overridden by another or be overriding toward another. And it will be seen that relating in this way can take place without imbalance or potentially destructive denials. You need to start with yourself and let the rest unfold to you.
The way to resolve situations between people now on Earth is not going to be as easy as it would have been if it been done initially because so many are conditioned away from straight forward expression of their feelings. This conditioning has created a much bigger charge of unexpressed emotion than existed originally. Nonetheless, it can be resolved.
Originally, only self denial was taking place on Earth as no one had as yet thought of overpowering another. The denial present was the denial agreed upon by the Spirits there. Overpowering came later when many Spirits, which did not have the same ways of learning as the Earth did, entered Earth. These Spirits exerted strong influence on the Earth to desert her own path and follow theirs. The opening these Spirits found to do this through were the denials already present on Earth, which they then steadily increased. If, in the beginning, the way to clear these undercurrents and denials had been known, this situation would have been resolved immediately. Since it was not known, the experience that has taken place has been necessary in order to learn.
The social system on Earth, in reflecting the denial, has not allowed much direct approach to problem-solving. The direct approach would solve the problems that denial has tried to avoid. Instead, denial has been saying that conflict on the Earth is suppose to be solved according to the laws and procedures already established and used whether applicable or not. If people don't fit the form, they are supposed to make themselves fit the form. This is backwards. Form is supposed to come in response to the people and the situation. While some have denied form in creation by belittling its importance, others have denied it by aggrandizing it. Neither of these extremes holds the answer.
Real help is what people need when there is conflict, not a settlement which is enforced whether people have agreement or not. That which cannot align with the settlement is forced to be held under current. Possibilities for denial are increased this way and so is the explosive possibility of society when undercurrents can no longer be held.
This was only appropriate as long as denial was appropriate on Earth. Now that denial is no longer appropriate on Earth, the way of relating between people is needing change. Settlement needs to feel right to all parties involved or it is not a real settlement. The guideline here is that no one has the right to force anything on another. Denial has been the opposition to direct settlement of this kind on Earth before. In denying others, people have not even realized they have done it in many cases. When you have already denied things in yourself it can be very hard to notice when you are denying those things in another.
While in the process of clearing out any old denial you have, you can aid all of your interpersonal relationships by just observing this simple guideline: do not impose your own approach on anyone else and do not let anyone else impose their approach on you either. Try this out and you'll see how far along you are in the practice of Free Will between people. You need to look at this closely though and see how much has already been denied in situations where you relate to other people. To understand your denial here you need to feel your true feelings and let yourself hear all the thoughts you would normally push away from your relationship with others.
Once you have all the information from your own being, you can make any adjustments you need to make in the relationship based on your own needs. The other people involved need to make their needs clear also. In making needs known, try to get to the bottom of them by seeking the source of the need rather than staying at the symptomatic level. You can seek the source by asking yourself why you have a certain need. If your answer is another need, ask yourself why you have that need. Follow yourself back this way until you find the denial you made in yourself that has been rendering you unable to fulfill this need in yourself. Then release the denial and allow yourself to fulfill the need. Fulfilling needs that involve other people maintains the highest balance point of Free Will when nothing takes place that is against the Free Will of another.
For example, do not let another person tell you how you should be relating. Instead let that person express his or her feelings towards you. Then you have the opportunity to change the way you relate to that person or to stop relating to that person. If you have to end a relationship with someone, you need to end it without judging that person or yourself. If judgments are already involved, you need to understand yourself enough to end the judgments and release the emotional charge around them. You can release yourself from the other person having any power over you by releasing all the feelings and judgments involved in this situation. In other words, feelings are for you to feel and express, but not for the purpose of manipulating others.
So far, when people have tried to seek balance in the ways described here, they have met with obstacles that seem formidable. There are some noteworthy examples which I want to point out. Whatever the legal system on Earth has gotten involved in attempting to settle interpersonal problems, it has so far usually resulted in a denial of Free Will someplace. This has to change in the next few years because the Earth is going to change in the next few years. The legal system has done its best it could given the Spirits present on Earth, but it can no longer impose its limits on Spirits that do not have those denials within themselves yet have been forced to accept those limits by the society in which they lived.
That brings me to another example of a seemingly notable exception to the process of balancing your Free Will with other people. Society has at present seemed to disallow any direct approach between people attempting to resolve conflicts in any way that does not involve heavy denial of true feelings. People, even more in recent times than in the past, have been labeled emotionally unstable, emotionally disturbed and even insane just for trying to express old charge on Earth. These labels have been applied by people who are in a heavy state of denial themselves. I want to point this out because I have seen that many people on Earth could have recovered their full spiritual presence already if they had been allowed to express themselves as they needed to.
Do not make an assumption that violence would have been involved here. The understanding you need is that the repression of the Will's expression creates violence. Violence is the last resort of repressed Will. Some Spirits have denied their own Will's so extensively that additional denial by other people causes them to erupt in violence. You can protect yourself from this, however, by realizing what is really happening in the relationship you are having with other people. You can easily spot serious denial if you have begun to notice denial in yourself.
Denial needs acceptance too. Some denial can be approached with Loving acceptance and some cannot. You can find out whether the denial if you have encountered is ready for Loving acceptance or not by approaching it with what you have to offer from your own true feelings. If the denial really accepts you, you will know it because you will feel it. If the denial does not accept you, you need to get away from it. I can handle anything I have created, but you are not me and you cannot handle everything.
It is no longer appropriate to continue the misunderstanding on Earth that I have asked Spirits to sacrifice themselves for others. Original Cause in Creation had this misunderstanding as a part of it. If you look at this thoroughly and follow it through as many implications as you need to understand it, you will see that it does not work. This even includes the raising of children. Children need an example of how to relate in a realistic manner with other people and not more examples of how to further deny themselves and others.
You cannot deny yourself without denying others. For example, if you deny yourself in order to do something for another person, how is that other person likely to feel if you are doing something for them that you do not want to do? It either does not feel good or denial is taking place. If you do really want to do it, why hand guilt to the other person by claiming you are doing it just for them? Undercurrent here is the judgment that the one denying self in favor of another is in the Spiritually superior position. Attempting to balance this later by allowing others to sacrifice themselves for you is not appropriate either. You need to feel this to know that I am right here.
Another example that I want to point out is the practice of trapping people within society's limits when they have purposely remove themselves in an effort to escape these limits. It is not the practice of Free Will to follow people all into the country side and impose limits on them that, if appropriate at all, are only appropriate in concentrated population centers. When people are trying to get free, they have to be allowed to get free. It is not appropriate for one to set limits to cover the entire area of where people have a chance to express themselves. Every minority, even if the minority is only one person, has to have a place in which it can express itself freely if. And that place must be freely given without strings attached and without other members of society looking upon it judgmentally or considering taking steps to control it.
No longer is any person to appoint themselves or anyone else the power to stop another person from expressing their own Free Will allows that person is overriding the Free Will in another. This balance point which protects everyone from being overridden definitely needs to be held present on Earth at this time, not only because it is always going to be the balance point, but also because people in the process of freeing their own Will's might temporarily try to override another if they have denied their own power extensively.
Polluting and poisoning are good examples of overriding the Will of not only others but the Earth itself. The planet has Free Will; everything in creation has Free Will. You need to know that even your own body is only with you as long as it wants to be. The Earth itself is already beginning to clear itself of the abuse and overriding it has received. In the near future, it is going to completely clear itself of all the denial it has received. In this process the West Coast, the East Coast, the Mississippi River Valley and all land directly south of the Great Lakes in the United States is going to experience land-mass shifts, so I suggest that you not stay there. Your own recovery process needs to show you where to go and what to do when you get there.
The recovery of your own true feelings is going to show you your own path of survival at all levels of your being. I have given warning of the coming times over and over on Earth and most people have denied me here. I am now warning you for the last time in any way that is going to give you time to do anything about it at all. You must end your denial of Me to remain on Earth and you must also declare from your Heart serious intent to end your own self-denial. The reality is that I have already seen how it is going to go on Earth. I have already seen who is going to listen to me this time and who is not. Even though I have already seen this, I still want all of you who have intent to heal yourselves now to make a conscious statement to Me. And even though I have only included in this book that which is applicable now to those intending to remain on Earth, I still want to point out that any overpowering of another, even slight and subtle, or any under current pressuring of another to do as you want them to do is no longer acceptable to me on Earth. Instead fearing Me now, I want you to express and release all the fear of Me that you can and then do the best that you can to end denial of yourself and others and know that I'm a loving God that will make sure you find your right place no matter where it is.
The fact of the matter is that the coming Earth changes are not going to be easy and some of you may want to ask me to lift you off the Earth until they are over. You have this option and yet, you might enjoy the changes. Instead of judging in advance of the situation, tell me out loud what your intent is now and communicate with me frequently. Instead of judging Me at all accept Me as the kind of Creator that cares about what I have created, and accept that I am willing to help you too. If you feel trapped by anything on Earth, you can ask for my help and get it.
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Right Use of Will
Healing and Evolving the Emotional Body
Ceanne DeRohan
Four Winds Publications